LONELY MAN!!!

heya

This is the third one and after a gap of years, just trying to engrave some good words, that's just because i am not a good writer. Although want to put a side of a man in front of you guys. Again before opening up with this one, i would like to introduce my new essential character (USP)!!  i started reading person's face from past few years.. In short slight change in personality and a slight change in maturity.

                                                                               Now, moving back to the title and my mind----  i still remember that wayne dyer said once that "you cannot be lonely if you like the person you are along with". yes it is true to some extent but what i feel is when you are with that person in a group you will definitely want that person to be more with you rather than anyone else, and if it does not you will surely feel a sort of loneliness... This is natural... And the only solution is........... huh still searching for the solution ?????? plz do provide me the genuine solutions.
                                                  what a man thinks and how a man react on various situation-
1. If he loves a girl.... (hard to differentiate during the initial phase that whether it is love, lust or infatuation) soon after some time it is more clear among the later three. As its my mind i would only like to talk about the first and the last one i.e love or infatuation, in most of the cases it is infatuation. Now at this point he is not lonely because he shares this feeling to his best friends.. if it is love than this lonely feeling arises just because in the either cases he has no guts to propose the girl nor to share the feeling with anyone.. And the problem is that if he dares to propose her, there are 90% chances that he would be rejected on a first row. Now what is the solution for this????? plz give ur suggestions.
2.In professional life .. you know that u are with your friends but still there are lots of restrictions(for a man who cares for his job), he cannot make a good contact with his friends, nor he can express himself. then the only option left for him is 9-6 full on work... this is good but not at all interesting...
3. A man could do anything to make his friend laugh, especially when it comes to friend who is a girl.. Don't know why this feeling arises.. but thats a fact jack! now when he expects the same with that girl .... It never happens... He is alone at the same place... why???

Now if you are thinking that i am just asking questions... then this is not the correct way to move on.. As these are my perspectives.. So , i will be giving  the solution in my next blog. Also i will be coming up with some technical blogs... As i am free minded this time-- that was the reason i just wrote this one... but in the successive blogs i will be more onto technical part with my heart and mind in the ratio of 1:1... As most of the technical writers are in the ratio of 1:0... :p...:)
          waiting for your comments and hope you liked it!!!

thanks in advance....

Shashank Sharma
working in embedded domain to impart the knowledge to my surrounding ....

We always think that we are enjoying today... may b its fine!!!! But let me tell one thing, that living today is good. But forgetting tomorrow is not good enough... at all... I m studying engineering, n my 3rd year is almost at n END. But the question here is !!! Now What?? I know that I have still one year to think... but... this will never end... I have to persuade myself with the truth , with the competetion. But i cant... Not only me, many of you must have gone through this. I have enjoyed my college life.. i have even saw many ups n downs !! n now im thinging that what should i do now?? i know i have to study 4 my xms.. But is my future secured?? there is NO ANSWER... i read it somewhere , that " If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. If you don't step forward, you're always in the same place". All the above , says only one thing go forward, n achieve something... Will i b able to achieve?? no no and no... Because i guess i m a pert.. Am i? may be. The problem is that we never asked ourself that what is going to b the next!!.
Most of us think that y to expoil our today ? on thinking about tomorrow.. The reason is that we are here for some reason. if i really think that im a smarter person n i can achieve then its not as easy as im thinking. i have to think BEYOND TOMORROW. Will i get a good job? Will i b able to secure my future, can i make my parents happy? are some of the question that every one of us must b thinking... and afterall we r humans!!! yar. Even in my frnds , someone wants to do MBA, someone Mtech, someone Cdac, and even some frnds do not know that what they gona do!! Even i dont no that what i m doing, n will do in future. But i know that whatsoever field i will choose in my future, im gona responsible for that.
Many persons have tried to teach me!!! about Do's n Dont's. But what can i do!!! i m the way im... n will remain the same. our college life is just a rafter of our life!! what i m achieving right now doest matter! matters is that . will i b able to hold this, n can i achieve??? The future is all ours.. we r the holder, n we r the destroyer... so i think that one should reassess. N THINK WHAT IS GOING TO BE TOMORROW?
shashank sharma